MOTIVATION VS DISCIPLINE

I love setting new goals for myself, I thrive on the “what’s next” goal that keeps me motivated to keep pushing forward and to be my best self. I think goals are imperative and great! Last May, I decided to compete in a bikini fitness competition. I wanted to compete to show myself I could stay disciplined and achieve what I set my mind to do. I wanted to compete while still being a single mom and being present for my children. I wanted to show myself I could compete in a loving way, nourishing my body with micronutrients and training myself with perseverance and persistence. I wanted to show myself I was worth putting effort into and that it was ok to put myself first.
This was a tall order; after putting on quite a few pounds over COVID, working six days a week, being a single mom, and loving my snacks, carbs, and treats, I knew this would be quite the goal. There were days when I wanted to give up, there were days when my self-talk was not so positive, and there were days when I didn’t want to go to the gym and didn’t want to eat anymore chicken or white fish. This is why I get it, and I understand my clients so much. I know what it’s like to struggle; I know what it’s like to not always have the most positive self-talk. I know what it is like to not feel like you deserve to put yourself first. But I can tell you, we ALL deserve to put ourselves first, love ourselves, be our cheerleaders, show up for ourselves day after day and never give up. This is why I need to stay disciplined on those tough days when my motivation starts to waver. Have you ever started a new eating style and then, a few weeks in started to lose motivation and go back to your old ways? Have you ever started a new training program, and then when results start to slow down and so does your motivation to keep up your workout routine? Here are some tips I hope you find helpful to keep your discipline when your motivation starts to diminish.
- Set a goal – be clear and as concise as possible.
- Write down your why for the goal.
- Put your goals where you can see them – photos on the fridge/mirror
- Positive affirmations: I like to practice daily, write them, and post them where I can see them often.
- Stay accountable – use a friend and/or coach
- Write down your action plan, small steps towards your goal.
- Know your weaknesses, what barriers you may run into and how you will overcome them this time.
- Make a schedule/create a routine around your action plan steps
- Plan for bumps along the way- plan to be perfectly imperfect and give yourself grace; this is a journey enjoy the ride.
- Celebrate your accomplishments!!
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